Zack's Blog

The Life & Times of Zack · 2012-2015 · 191 posts

<p>Walking to Starbucks wearing dad&rsquo;s old Georgia Tech hat</p>

Walking to Starbucks wearing dad’s old Georgia Tech hat

← Earlier<p>Happy boy hangin&rsquo; in the stroller on his way to big bro&rsquo;s soccer practice.</p> <p>ZBL enjoys the stroller we borrowed from our friends the Schroepfers: very comfy and can see out &ndash; plus has a good canopy when the sun is shining on his face.  We are fortunate that the Great White Sharks team practices 5 mins from our house so we can walk over if Z&rsquo;s not napping.  He loves watching the big boys play and visiting with the siblings and parents on the sidelines.</p> Later →<p>4 months old!</p> <p>I picked out a half-zip for this photo shoot b/c it&rsquo;s a fave of his dad :-)</p> <p>It&rsquo;s been a big month for ZBL!  His major accomplishment was rolling over on October 4th, from tummy to back.  Most of his efforts, however, have been focused on using his hands:  to get things to his mouth, to move objects, to grab things.  It&rsquo;s been fun watching him realize he can control them and do things with them.  I can see the look on his face, the intensity with which he is focused on his goal.  He is definitely moving out of the 4th trimester set of needs into a broader and more interesting set.</p> <p>This month I&rsquo;ve seen him engage with people more. When we drop SPL @ school, the other kids come to say hi and he smiles at them and their parents. Sometimes he&rsquo;ll even talk with them.  When we go to SPL&rsquo;s various activities too, the parents and other kids often visit with Z and it&rsquo;s clear he enjoys the interactions.</p> <p>Talking: ZBL likes to talk with people.  I see him talk with our babysitter as she replies in Mandarin (side note: I think many of the initial words that babies learn are easier in Mandarin: big brother vs. gēge (pronounced &ldquo;guh guh&rdquo;) and big sister vs. jiě jie (prounounced &ldquo;jeh jeh&rdquo;) and little sister mei mei (pronounced &ldquo;may may&rdquo;) and little brother vs. di di (pronounced &ldquo;dee dee&rdquo;).  It&rsquo;ll be interesting to see how his language develops.  SPL didn&rsquo;t get exposed in earnest to Mandarin until he was 3 years old but spoke his first word in English, &ldquo;hi&rdquo;, at 10 months.</p> <p>Z is at his most interactive on the changing table.  Often we will have lengthy conversations or laughs while he&rsquo;s getting his diaper changed or right after.  His vocalizations have increased dramatically this month and he clearly has something to say when he&rsquo;s talking to me/John/SPL/our babysitter.  His eyebrows will arch and his lips will change shape along with the rest of his face to express emotion along with the sounds. </p> <p>Our biggest effort this month as a family has been towards getting Z on a better day time sleep pattern.  For awhile, he was sleeping 4 20 minute naps a day and even this good natured child was Mr. Crankypants by the end of the day.  A friend recommended a sleep coach for us and after working with her, Z and I have found better sleep patterns.  He now sleeps in his papasan bouncy seat, which elevates his head above his stomach to help relieve any reflux that he&rsquo;s been suffering (undiagnosed) from.  He struggled so much on his back, even with the swaddle, and was much more peaceful in the bouncy chair (it&rsquo;s not vibrating though &ndash; just used for the elevation).  The first nap he got after working with the sleep coach was 3 hours?!?!?  Unprecedented.  His babysitter and even many parents at  SPL&rsquo;s school noticed the difference in his face and skin.  He&rsquo;s like a new kid!  Let&rsquo;s hope it keeps going.</p>